My greatest joy is being Mumma to two awesome humans, Paris and Jesse, and our fur baby Baxter. Both my kids are young adults now and have left home.

Second to that is my life's work and my true passion and purpose - helping my clients break free from feeling stuck and restricted in their life and marriage, to living a life where they feel energised, alive and fully free in.

I'm living proof of this transformation, and will say to you that your true long-term happiness will only come through this level of sovereignty and self-authorship - which needs to exist independent and regardless of your marital status for you to feel fully free and self-empowered.

Hiya!
I'm Kristen.
Founder of Reinventing Her, Relationship Coach, Mentor, and the woman who has lived a version of the story you're currently in.

Hiya!
I’m Kristen.
Founder of Reinventing Her, Relationship Coach, Mentor, and the woman who has lived a version of the story you’re currently in.

Hiya!
I’m Kristen.
Founder of Reinventing Her, Relationship Coach, Mentor, and the woman who has lived a version of the story you’re currently in.

Hiya!
I’m Kristen.
Founder of Reinventing Her, Relationship Coach, Mentor, and the woman who has lived a version of the story you’re currently in.

Two colleagues discussing work in a modern office.
Two colleagues discussing work in a modern office.
Two colleagues discussing work in a modern office.

How I got to the educated, experienced and grounded person I am today.

My relationship with my husband was the catalyst for me starting a learning journey that spans beyond 25 years now. I developed an insatiable appetite to learn every aspect of human behaviour and relationship dynamics, so I could better understand myself and my relationship. Trying to ‘fix’ my marriage and bring my dream to life was the driving force behind my relentless pursuit of knowledge.

But after years of unfruitful effort, what created the most impactful and empowering change was when I stopped focusing on fixing my relationship — and focused on the woman inside it.

Enter my second phase of learning. How to become a happy, sovereign, self-assured woman, independent of my marital status.

Throughout this journey, I came to realise that my husband and our marriage weren’t the right fit for the rest of my life, and I ended it. Although a hard decision to execute, it was also one of the most peaceful I’ve made. That was 10 years ago.

Fast forward to early 2024. I received a massive blow in the form of a cancer diagnosis, and presumably the ‘incurable’ kind. Honestly…it brought me to my knees. Had I not had the knowledge, wisdom, and self-evolvement acquired in the previous 25 years, I don’t believe I could have managed it or come back from it as well as I have. Something in me knew that everything happens for us, and on the other side of this chapter, my life was going to be better than it’s ever been before. And it is. Truly!

I have so much gratitude for the opportunity the diagnosis gave me to sink even deeper into self-discovery, connection to my soul and inner peace. This has been my 3rd phase of learning and the catalyst to me becoming the most grounded, authentic, soul-aligned and free version of myself that I live and breathe today.

How I got to the educated, experienced and grounded person I am today.

My relationship with my husband was the catalyst for me starting a learning journey that spans beyond 25 years now. I developed an insatiable appetite to learn every aspect of human behaviour and relationship dynamics, so I could better understand myself and my relationship. Trying to ‘fix’ my marriage and bring my dream to life was the driving force behind my relentless pursuit of knowledge.

But after years of unfruitful effort, what created the most impactful and empowering change was when I stopped focusing on fixing my relationship — and focused on the woman inside it.

Enter my second phase of learning. How to become a happy, sovereign, self-assured woman, independent of my marital status.

Throughout this journey, I came to realise that my husband and our marriage weren’t the right fit for the rest of my life, and I ended it. Although a hard decision to execute, it was also one of the most peaceful I’ve made. That was 10 years ago.

Fast forward to early 2024. I received a massive blow in the form of a cancer diagnosis, and presumably the ‘incurable’ kind. Honestly…it brought me to my knees. Had I not had the knowledge, wisdom, and self-evolvement acquired in the previous 25 years, I don’t believe I could have managed it or come back from it as well as I have. Something in me knew that everything happens for us, and on the other side of this chapter, my life was going to be better than it’s ever been before. And it is. Truly!

I have so much gratitude for the opportunity the diagnosis gave me to sink even deeper into self-discovery, connection to my soul and inner peace. This has been my 3rd phase of learning and the catalyst to me becoming the most grounded, authentic, soul-aligned and free version of myself that I live and breathe today.

Two colleagues talking through a project.
Two colleagues talking through a project.
Two colleagues talking through a project.

Throughout my journey, I’ve been educated and moulded by world-class mentors, thought leaders and change-makers in the fields of human behaviour, psychology, relationships, spirituality, metaphysics, quantum physics, energy psychology and neuroscience.

Books. Courses. Certifications. Retreats. Seminars. Coaches. Therapists. Teachers.
Millions of words consumed. Tens of thousands of hours applied. And hundreds of thousands of dollars spent acquiring the knowledge and skills I’ve mastered today for personal and emotional transformation.

But not just knowledge — integration.
And not just theory — embodiment.

My knowledge and expertise are grounded in both science and spirituality, plus a deep experiential understanding of my clients through my own journey of losing and reclaiming myself inside my marriage, and reinventing myself on the other side.

I navigated my way out of insecurity, resentment, fear and emotional depletion, and into emotional clarity, strong boundaries, and empowered decision-making. This is how I know the exact roadmap so you can create this for yourself too.

I’m not your typical relationship coach. Not even close.

I’m not your typical relationship coach. Not even close.

I’m not your typical relationship coach. Not even close.

I’m not your typical relationship coach. Not even close.

Priceless Wisdom + Practical Knowledge Through Experience

Through it all, I’ve developed a deep understanding of:

• how I lost myself in my long marriage
• how resentment and disappointment erode my connection with my husband
• how clarity didn’t come through thinking — only through inner reconnection
• what it took to shift my identity from victim to self-author
• what it took to shift from waiting for my husband to change — and start leading my own life

In the end, my most impactful work wasn’t about fixing my husband.
It was about freeing MYSELF.

If you’re ready for the next season of your life — whether that is healing within your marriage or preparing for life beyond it — I’m dedicated to walking beside you with honesty, compassion, tools and a roadmap.

Together we’ll create:

✓ Relief from resentment, anger and emotional overwhelm
✓ Clarity around “stay or go” without guilt or confusion
✓ Healthy boundaries, communication & self-worth
✓ A path to dignified detachment or renewed connection
✓ A life led from soul, not survival

With love, Kristen x

Priceless Wisdom + Practical Knowledge Through Experience

Through it all, I’ve developed a deep understanding of:

• how I lost myself in my long marriage
• how resentment and disappointment erode my connection with my husband
• how clarity didn’t come through thinking — only through inner reconnection
• what it took to shift my identity from victim to self-author
• what it took to shift from waiting for my husband to change — and start leading my own life

In the end, my most impactful work wasn’t about fixing my husband.
It was about freeing MYSELF.

If you’re ready for the next season of your life — whether that is healing within your marriage or preparing for life beyond it — I’m dedicated to walking beside you with honesty, compassion, tools and a roadmap.

Together we’ll create:

✓ Relief from resentment, anger and emotional overwhelm
✓ Clarity around “stay or go” without guilt or confusion
✓ Healthy boundaries, communication & self-worth
✓ A path to dignified detachment or renewed connection
✓ A life led from soul, not survival

With love, Kristen x

Clarity, confidence, and a solid plan for upgrading yourself and your life.

No husband participation required.

© 2026 Kristen McKenzie

All Rights Reserved

Clarity, confidence, and a solid plan for upgrading yourself and your life.

No husband participation required.

© 2026 Kristen McKenzie

All Rights Reserved

Clarity, confidence, and a solid plan for upgrading yourself and your life.

No husband participation required.

© 2025 Kristen McKenzie All rights Reserved